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    Sleep Talking

    Updated at February 20th, 2022

    Definition

    • Sleep talking is a partial wake-up in which children talk in their sleep
    • They act confused and can’t be fully awakened, but are usually calm
    • Occur in 10 to 30% of normal children. Sleep talking is so common and harmless looking that most parents don’t ask about it.
    • Peak age is 2 to 12 years
    • Cause: Sleep talking runs in families
    • Triggers: Occur more frequently if the child has a sleep debt
    • Also called somniloquy

    Health Information

    Symptoms

    • While sleep talking, the ability to understand the child’s speech varies.
    • Some talk clearly, but the words don’t make sense. Others make speech sounds that are mumbled. Rarely does the child say something that has a clear meaning.
    • Sleep speech also sounds different than normal wakeful speech. Most sleep talkers talk without any emotion. The child is usually not agitated.
    • Sleep talk goes on for 1 to 5 minutes. It then stops of its own accord with the child falling back into deep sleep.
    • They don’t realize you are there, even though their eyes are wide open and staring.
    • Episodes usually start 1 to 3 hours after falling asleep.
    • In the morning, your child can’t remember what happened.
    • Sleep talking can also occur during naps.

    Care Advice

    1. Don’t Worry About the Sleep Talking:
      • Sleep talking is normal in many children. It runs in families.
      • Your child will usually only talk for 1 to 5 minutes.
      • It usually doesn’t mean anything important is happening.
    2. Don’t Try to Wake Up Your Child:
      • Sleep talkers cannot easily be fully awakened, no matter what you do
      • There is no way to stop the sleep talking episode.
      • Shaking or shouting at your child will just cause your child to become upset.
    3. Prepare Babysitters for Possible Sleep Talking:
      • Explain to people who care for your child that sleep talking is normal for him or her.
      • Important for sleepovers. Reason: Sleep talking is more common in a strange environment.
      • Understanding this will prevent them from over-reacting.
    4. Help Roommates Deal with the Sleep Talking:
      • If sleep talking is disruptive to others, earplugs may help.
    5. What to Expect:
      • Children will usually do less sleep talking when they reach adolescence.
      • But if adults in your family talk in their sleep, your child will probably do the same.

    Call Your Doctor If

    • Your child has frequent snoring
    • You have other questions or concerns

    Author: Barton Schmitt MD, FAAP

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